It is a common assumption that girls have it easy but it is not always so. Only a girl can understand how frustrating it is to wait and wait for the boy she likes to ask her out. Well, it is the 21st century and the dynamics of wooing and pursuing have changed. Who says only a boy should make the first move and ask the girl out? All you unhappily single girls, this Valentine’s Day let’s learn how to score.
Once you are sure you like the boy enough to want to go out with him, step into the line of action. It is the age of cell phones so use that as your weapon. The basis of any relationship is that the boy and girl should know each other well. So get his number and slowly start messaging him. The key here would be subtlety as coming on too strong would scare him away.
Build up an easy friendship but make sure you do not seem like just a buddy. Make interesting conservations and do not forget to compliment him on his shoes or clothes etc. Just two days before Valentine’s day go for the kill. Casually suggest spending the day together.
If you are not the messaging kind of person then get to him to know you through regular meetings. Organise group dates where a bunch of other friends will be around and engage in fun stuff like fishing, bowling or just plain hanging out at a coffee shop. Take the opportunity to talk to him and spend considerable time together. If he looks like he is enjoying your company then suggest spending another day together — this time let it be just the two of you.
The main thing that a girl should keep in mind when asking out a guy is that it is just a date and there is no need to lose sleep over it. Do not be too nervous and muster up enough courage. After all guys will appreciate that even girls are making the effort and it’s not always them. No one is averse to a refreshing change.